In discussing how people can support their trans relatives, friends, or colleagues, Page emphasized that the key lies in education and sensitivity.
He said, “There are many resources available to learn about trans people and our experiences. Asking questions isn’t inherently negative, but it’s important to consider the timing, context, and tone.”
Ultimately, Page’s words highlight that the world would be a much better place if the biggest challenge trans people faced was simply being accidentally misgendered.
Trans people face disproportionate vulnerability to homelessness, difficulties in maintaining employment, and significant mental health challenges.
For some trans people, these issues are further compounded by intersectional factors such as racism, disability, and class.
Some health organizations, such as those in the UK, have guidance suggesting that transitioning can be viewed as a way to alleviate symptoms of mental health conditions like depression.
As a result, they might focus on “treating” the mental health symptoms rather than providing gender-affirming care.
Gender-affirming surgeries have one of the lowest regret rates among all surgeries, even lower than routine procedures like hip replacements.
Trans people who have access to gender-affirming care overwhelmingly report improvements in their mental health, even in the face of prejudice and the dangers that transitioning can entail.
The key point is: if you accidentally misgender a trans or non-binary person, simply apologize and move on. They likely have more significant concerns to address.
